[Garry watches that reaction, his mouth thinning into a sympathetic line at that sigh and the evident frustration and exhaustion behind it.]

... I understand.

[A beat, then:]

You don't have to elaborate if you don't want to, you know-- I would certainly be a hypocrite to insist that other people do something I've been trying to avoid doing myself.

[Perhaps that seems like an odd statement coming from someone as seemingly outwardly normal as Garry, or perhaps not.]